Circle of Six #SAAM
Hurts When Breathe
The first time I had a hand “around” my throat during sex, it wasn’t a choke. He was holding me down, gaining leverage, and doing what he had to do to keep me where I was so he could keep hitting ‘that spot’. He was not squeezing, he was not trying to cut off my air. I realized that I liked having his hand there, so much so, that I kept trying to rise up and put my neck into his grasp.
72 Virgins & Such #SAAM
What’s the big deal anyhow?
I mean seriously, what is the big deal?
One of the things that’s always bothered me in the history of the world, or my world at least, is this concept that a woman untouched is some prize worth capturing and imposing a value on a woman based on her vagina frequent flyer miles – or absence there of.
A Mind is a Terrible Thing to Waste #SAAM
Ain’t About That Life
Sexual Freedom Summit 2014 #SAAM
One part of changing the conversation involves de-mystifying sex and sexuality. Letting go of antiquated ideas that value a woman based on her “vagina miles” can go a long way towards valuing the human being the total woman is – and not just the vagina she happens to be sitting on at the moment.